When I was 17 I remember reading the following quote from Napoleon Hill:
"Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed on an equal or greater benefit."
That quote, and the book 'Think and Grow Rich', has never been far from my nightstand ever since. I have my original tattered copy near me right now. The pages are yellowed and torn, and the spine is held together with duct tape, but I still refer to it at least once a month. I just ordered a copy of 'The Law of Success' which is a compilation of Hill's studies...a Christmas gift to myself that I hope to receive in the mail today.
A trader's day to day life will have more "failures" than most other lives. That's one of the great difficulties of being a trader. There are very few moments when you can sit back and say, "Wow, I handled that perfectly!" Usually any trade can be critiqued from many angles after the fact: "I could have gotten in sooner"; "I should have held on longer"; "I should have cut my losses faster"; "I should have taken my profits while I had them"; "I should have had more money in the trade"; etc., etc., etc."Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed on an equal or greater benefit."
That quote, and the book 'Think and Grow Rich', has never been far from my nightstand ever since. I have my original tattered copy near me right now. The pages are yellowed and torn, and the spine is held together with duct tape, but I still refer to it at least once a month. I just ordered a copy of 'The Law of Success' which is a compilation of Hill's studies...a Christmas gift to myself that I hope to receive in the mail today.
For that reason, a trader can not look on setbacks as failures...it would be way too demoralizing. He must look on his setbacks as lessons. Lessons that cost real money, but that, once learned, will yield fortunes.
I learned a few important lessons this year:
1. Never, ever seek out anyone else's advice on the market or on a particular stock. That is: don't ever watch Cramer, don't ever listen to tips, don't watch CNBC, don't watch NBR, don't subscribe to any newsletters, don't even read IBD too much anymore. Rely solely on yourself. Use Daily Graphs, Briefing.com, McClellan Oscillator, your quote screen and intraday charts. (Listening to others, even very intelligent traders, cost me money earlier this year because their style was not my style. Every trader is unique. He must develop and be coherent with his own style. Until you find your style it is good to learn from others; but depend on no one but yourself.)
2. Concentrate your stock dealings around earnings. When a stock gaps up to new highs on massive volume after announcing earnings of 75% or more make sure you get in that stock - and hold on as long as you can. Stocks like that often double within six months to a year. Keep those stocks on your radar screen if you miss them the first time and get in later as a base sets up. Also, along those lines, be very wary of holding large amounts of stock just before earnings announcements.
3. When you are sure that a correction has set in - get out of the market totally and immediately. There is no point in suffering through 20 to 30% drawdowns while the market sorts itself out. Even the best stocks will be sold off with brutal force. Just get out and stay out until the market has a follow through day.
4. Once a Follow Through Day has occurred, wait for the rally to finish. Then await the end of the first retracement before taking any long term positions. This usually takes a week or two. Most FTDs experience some sort of retracement and the great majority of stocks that break out close to the FTD will fall back into their bases at least once or twice before any real progress is made. Trying to get in with long term positions too early is a frustrating experience that more often than not results in losses as your gains evaporate on volatile retracements.
5. The stocks you want to get into after a FTD are the same ones you sold once the correction set in ~ stocks that within the last quarter or two gapped to new highs on massive volume on earnings.
There were many other smaller lessons I learned this year. But the above mentioned ones are by far the most important. They all cost me money to learn, but some day those costly lessons will appear invaluable.





